If you’re going to try, go all the way. Otherwise, don’t even start.

This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing out in the cold. It could mean jail. It could mean isolation. Isolation is the gift.

All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it. And, you’ll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you’re going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter.

It’s the only good fight there is.

Many believe they need to close a chapter before opening a new one. They see closure as a washing away and they don’t allow themselves to move on until what is preventing them from moving on has completely dissolved. I believe closure is having the ability to transition, walking after that crippling event or relationship. Closure then is courage.

Closure doesn’t have to mean forgetting about or erasing memories.
The events that have happened to us, the relationships we have been through, they are valuable. To hope they didn’t happen or push them away is not closure. That is denial. Closure means to accept, learn from, but most importantly begin again.

Closure means to walk and it is a bridge, not a door.

他和她分手两年了。两年来他每天下班，习惯性的打开她的博客，看看她一天的心情。她有时候高兴，有时候悲伤，有时候失落。他只是静静地注视着，不做一点评论。直到有一天，她的博客上挂满了她的婚纱照。下面有一行小字：我嫁人了，不等你了，不更新了。—— 因为太爱所以沉默， 还是沉默让爱窒息。

每个人都有这样的经历吧，夜深人静，突然觉得不是睡不着，而是固执地不想睡。一个人躺在床上，静静的想，静静的思。曾经的你，曾经的我，曾经的我们。或多或少，或悲或喜。其实，回忆已成为了一种习惯，习惯在夜里享受孤独，习惯在夜里独自哀伤，习惯在夜里独守这份寂寞。我，不想习惯，却无力更改。

第一次, 好笑的一套戏, 结局令人感动, 我就是这么幼稚….

第二次, 到结局开始忍不住眼泪.

第三次, 柯腾哼的歌竟是人海中遇见你, 真心祝福自己疼爱的人真不容易

第四次, 多谢妳沈佳宜, 我解脱了, 我也很喜欢当年喜欢妳的我

第五次, 十分熟悉每一句对白, 一字一句直入心坎, 人生很多事本来就是徒劳无功的, 何况是我对妳的感情?

看了六次了, 永远记得沈佳宜最后婚礼的一幕

成熟雍容步出来令人感动落泪, 就像柯腾一样看见一起长大的妳走入人生另一阶段

镜头上沈佳宜得悉柯腾的内心秘密后先是惊讶, 再感动到热泪盈眶, 再是释怀的噗哧一笑, 想妳是一样吧, 可惜没有勇气面对妳, 那我就继续幼稚下去吧,

我就像镜头里的柯腾永远忘不了车站上沈佳宜那个侧面.