Honeymoon periods. I suppose it depends on how you define the honeymoon period. There are parts of the honeymoon period that end inevitably, the crazy googoogaga nologicwhatsoever buaytahanifIdon'tseeyourightnow that one associates with love. It's the time when everything seems peachy and nothing in the world can go wrong, I guess. That part's usually very short. Haha.

I do think a lot of the things you have at the start eventually sorta go away. My ex, whom I unfortunately had rather sparse chemistry with, insisted that romance can last if you try to keep it alive.

Maybe then it's how you define romance. Just cause you get somewhat 'used' to seeing a person doesn't mean you love the person less, it's just that you've kinda gotten the initial infatuation and you realise that your significant other does do normal things like sit on the toilet bowl and occasionally pick her nose when no one's looking. Sending 328946 smses a day to ask how she is and letting her know where you are and waiting with bated breath for the BEEP BEEP and getting all emo when it doesn't come is something that obviously doesn't (and perhaps shouldn't) last forever.

As you progress in your relationship, you progress in your life. And while your life may include the other person, it shouldn't revolve around the other person, just like how you shouldn't expect her to revolve her life around you. The honeymoon period can end, and that's when you know whether you love the person or not. Or vice versa. Eventually the things you once thought were SO CUTE (-insert vapid lovestruck expression here-) will be things that kinda annoy you once in awhile. Oh no, this perfect gal isn't so perfect because she doesn't hug me like she used to, doesn't do this and that..

There are certain things which do end with the honeymoon period, and certain things which don't. Gals, being the neanderthals that they are, will still need to bond with their female counterparts once in awhile. And as much as that may invoke a tearful declaration of my undying love which she will so conveniently put aside for that oh-so-important shopping trip with the recently reunited jie mei(s), it doesn't (shouldn't) take a toll on our relationship. Of course, if it's on a special day such as our anniversary, then hell hath no fury. When I call her and he is too sleepy to talk, or she's terribly unresponsive because she's trying to play Rhasta with one hand while entertaining my endless yakking, I have to realise sometimes that when I come and bug her in the middle of something she's doing, she is not always going to welcome it. As much as she loves me. Which I know she does.

If you're a different person when you're with her and when you're alone/with friends/family then you need to ask yourself why that's so, and whether she's the same person with you as well. If she has to be someone else while with you, then when the honeymoon period ends, SO DOES THE ACT.

There comes a time when I ask myself - what is my place in her life? Do I butt into his gals-only activities? Do I insist on being part of everything she does?

If so, then I'm sorely mistaken on the difference between love and smothering.

I'ill be waiting-

Just came back from meeting Wanderz, BJ, Ruby, Alan, Merv and special guest Fatofu. Fatofu shared with us his experience in Russia and @ Dreamhack. His dreamhack experience so funny lahz. The hotel they stayed in had the common toilet concept. So he came out of the shower pantless to be greeted by the MYM guys. He shook their hands PANTLESS. I wonder if they noticed anything =X LOL!

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People change. But do you have to change till you forget your friends? Maybe to you they aren't much of a friend to you. Well they did ask you out and stuffs. I'm rather disappointed in your crude remarks and reactions to them. I don't know what's up with you. Don't know what's wrong with you. Don't know what you want.

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Somehow I feel like a back-up plan to your life.lol.

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Life is filled with choices. Every choice comes with opportunity cost. Every decision comes with consequences. I wonder if this time I am up to the challenges and changes. I know my weakness. I need to change. I somehow can't as much as i want to. I can't have someone who gives in to me till i step on the person's head. I can't have someone who doesn't give in to me at all coz I will cry. The right mix. It's almost impossible.

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I admire how the both of you are so sweet to each other though half the time i totally cannot stand the way you both quarrel over stupid stuffs. Maybe it's the quarrels that make you two cherish each other. A little jealous =X

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This is how much my head is thinking of right now. Mass unrelated issues. LOL! You wen ti =\

Unimaginable mood and thoughts.

Dreams scare me. Or maybe it's better classified as nightmares. I'm so tired. I want to sleep. But I end up tossing and turning. Just somehow can't get a terrifying image out my mind.

I find myself to be a stubborn person. I am holding on to things which I shouldnt be. I cant force myself to forget things. I dont know what to do. Im lost..

I wan cup cakes. Sad. Told someone I want cup cakes. She tell me buy cake put in a cup =( Emo.

I dunno why but i just feel so moody. Somehow there's some issue with people around me today. But there's just one person that can put a smile on my face. =D I can't help smiling thought I'm tired and moody.

I somehow yearn for affection.

There's some girl I 'know'. As in I know about her, but I don't know her.

Very weird girl, I think. Manipulating her boyfriend constantly, always using her supposed ailments to make herself look like some pitiful victim.

I wonder who is the victim of that kind of sociopathy.

Things like, "How can you leave me here, you know how scared I am to be alone. Don't be surprised if you come home to find me unconscious."

There is only one word I can use to describe that, and that word is FREAKY. Seriously does one need to act like a terminally ill patient to gain the love and support of your boyfriend? If you do, then I don't think it's real love - you're just looking for pity.

Lastly, do you really love him or do you only love yourself? Cause it seems like the latter.

Enough of Ranting. Anyhow, had a pleasant outing with Tarus members yesterday even though I arrived late and almost lost my way in Vivo, cuz that place is so god damm big.

Went to Burger King with the BMs and got to know them a little better. Mr Yanlong's always so friendly. Mr Smith's certainly has got the CA look, confident and daring to go for what he wants. Ms Corinne's kinda cool. Eventually ,we went for a movie " Enchanted" and the movie's awesome. Nice beautiful fairytale, just right for me. Ha.

Shall end here. Projects awaits.

How much am i willing to give up? I don't know. Maybe i'm not ready for this. I can't just give up what i've planned for, something that makes me happy. Compromises can be made i guess. We can survive through this ordeal? Maybe. It isn't that long anyways. Will my interest last that long i wonder. You don't have to doubt me coz i doubt myself.

Today I wake up feeling so.. alone.

That feeling that drags you down every step I take.

"Tong! Jia you!" Thats all she said to me.

A cold trace down my cheek
The biggest splash onto my desk
The loudest silent scream...